Last September, the women in my family did something we’d never done before: we left our kids with their dads and took off for a weekend getaway. The five of us–my mom, my sisters, my sister-in-law, and me–drove to Brown County, Indiana, where we rented an adorable cabin on a little lake. When we pulled up to the cabin in the complete darkness of night, we were mildly unsettled by the fact that it looked quite murder-y, but once we got inside, we were set at ease by the quaint decor and the comfy beds and the plethora of quilts and blankets. The next morning, when the sun came up and we could see our surroundings, we were amazed by the beautiful setting–the water,…